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DALTON Is Born! Pregnancy , Delivery & Beyond Part 2

  • Feb 21, 2017
  • 4 min read

Like i said in my other Blog post of "Pregnancy , Delivery & Beyond" Through any Pregnancy and Delivery your always going to be told different stories that's why I'm here to reassure again 2nd time around. Ladies who are pregnant or due to be a Mummy for the 1st time, Don't listen to others only you know your own body and if your in pain or know something is not right?! Then keep making a fuss until your heard and feel more comfortable. As previously told also I was told around the age of 21 i couldn't have children & that IVF wouldn't help in the matter so i just got on with life, A bit after that i was told i have "Poly Cystic Ovaries" and that also played a factor, So in time i just ignored what i was told as i was upset and carried on enjoying my life! In April 2015 i met my partner Adam who i went to school with not seen him for a great number of years but we met up ended up going to festivals going on dates and enjoying life together, After a festival i felt quite poorly & ended up pregnant with Scarlett and had her 14th March 16. This time round is much more different as i just had a child so i wasn't planning any more at that moment in time, Once i had Scarlett i was able to attend dentist appointments for procedures what wasn't allowed whilst pregnant i remember going home feeling so sick and dizzy i felt so ill i keep feeling like i was going to pass out! So after appointment with the doctor we though it was a allergic reaction to the injection in my gum. After a bit i kept feeling unwell i kept thinking to myself i cant be still suffering with this allergic reaction can i? So my partner suggested we do a pregnancy test to rule out everything even though i just had a baby and couldn't possibly be pregnant!? So we did the test and the next minute a faint line shown up that was it me and my partner went white and thought it cant be that it might still show up from previous pregnancy so we ended waiting a week and had bloods done and it came back i was actually pregnant?! So we had to consider the situation we have just only had a baby, will i be ok to carry again? what would happen to my body so soon? finances as my partner works full time and im a stay at home mum obviously so we didn't know what to do, We decided in the end it was best to have this little baby as i dont believe in terminations and we was lucky and blessed with another child seeing as i was told i would never have children. So we went ahead with the pregnancy. During the pregnancy again i had mild "Hyperemesis gravidarum (HG)" I was so physically and mentally unwell with it again i was put on sickness tablets but lucky enough to not have to go to the hospital like last time when i was first pregnant. During my pregnancy i had a lot of help from My Family again which i will always be blessed for. I also had stress from certain individuals Still which never helped throughout my pregnancy again but i got there in the end! I ended up getting "Gestational Diabetes" which one minute i didn't need sugar and then i did the doctors could not work out what was going on with my body?! As the pregnancy progressed i had to keep having scans to make sure my was ok ! In the third trimester my baby was shrinking in size and becoming unwell which was making myself unwell as the poor baby was taking everything from me i was drained of everything even though i kept trying to give him enough. They had to book me for a C section asap, it was a good few week before my actual due date to get the baby out and safe. The day of the C Section i was so scared i kept grabbing my partner and kept saying i'm gonna die every 5 minutes and i kept crying. The time was here! i had to put a gown and head wear on and was taken to a operating room there was so many electrical equipment and doctors it was so scary and unreal, They had to numb my body from the waist down & like last time i didn't want an epidural due to a slipped disc from a car crash years ago, but i had to have it all due to C Section procedures, they then did the freezing stage were they spray a ice cold spray to test your completely and fully numb. Once i was all prepped and ready they brought my partner into the room so we could meet our bundle of joy! They started cutting me open and doctors and my partner kept me talking and sane as i was so scared! I felt pressure & weird pulling as they was getting the baby out ( NO PAIN LADIES ) then i heard them say hes out and he was passed over to look at for a few seconds then he was rushed to be checked and then he was brought back to me it was emotional he was so tiny and precious our little baby boy. As i was recovering in a side room alone my son ended up catching a very bad cold and he was quite poorly for a while so we had to extend our stay in hospital. My son was born on the 21st February 2017, That was the best day of my life and the most emotional day iv ever experienced Including Scarlett's birth, As iv said before To become a Mother now to 2 baby's is a blessing as i wasn't able to have any! Having that feeling to Protect, Care & Guard these small little babys for the rest of my life was the best gift i was given! My little rockstar was named "Dalton" & to this day he is a Happy,Cheeky,Funny,Beautiful,Caring,Loving Sleep Fighting Warrior & I'm in so much love with him & also his sister that i cant even describe!


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